I have been here for 9 years as the wife of a Brit, and not to sound like all oh my life is so great and all that crap, but you know what. I think it is. I fell into some really fantastic things since I came here, for me, the trick was to be proactive. I got a job right away, and I am still with the same people. A group of us been taken through 3 different Ad Agencies with my boss, who is one of my closest friends, this for me has meant fantastic career progression and basic life progression. I don't earn the big bucks, but the progression for me has been great. When I had my son, that opened a whole load more doors for me, I met tons more people, and everything got even better than it already was! I have been right at home here since the day I got here. How lucky am I?? I still feel very close to my family in the states, we talk every day, if not two or three times a day, and I see my parents about 4 times a year. IMO My quality of life here is really great, I don't believe I could have this good of a quality of life, not to mention my social life in the states. I am a happy bunny really! How lucky a girl am I???