Ginny,
I understand what you are going through! I am waiting for my visa to go home to my husband as well.
I tried to hire an expediter last week to re-submit my case, but when they went to the LA consulate, they said my package had already been opened, now it was just a waiting time for processing.
As of September 17th, ALL packages received before the 16th of September have been opened and are being processed, by order of arrival date. Keep in mind they will process all courier-received packages first and then by date of receipt, but you should be hearing from them soon (and hopefully in the form of approval!). Because of their computer systems being down for 4 days plus the august backlog for student visas, they had not emailed anyone about the opening of packages and apparently they forget to email approval as well.
So don't worry you will probably be notified soon!
-Danielle