sad sad unbearably sad no visa

well I didn't get it... they didn't give it to me... said i  needed documentation i didnt have... i tried to get it online b4 i left and on the phone but they said it didnt exist any longer... so now here i am still in the us heading into downtown miami to try to get it or at least a letter saying the records no longer exist... and hoping that will be good enough.... why don't they give you better info about what document you need exactly for EVERY SINGLE QUESTION they ask you? GOD!!!! this was supposed to be my honeymoon and my husbena is home agian in scotland and here i am hoping and praying that what i get downtown today will be good enough... isnt it enough i was honest? i coulda lied about it and i'd be home right now they woulda never known id been arrested 22 years ago... not even a felon and im stuck here til who knows when... I was afraid to lie afraid they would find the records i hadn't been able to find... guys please pray for me or what ever it is you do... wish me luck...cross your fingers... light a candle... send me good vibes  JO

Damn, Im sorry to hear this. Sending good vibes your way... 

PS-- I havent been online in awhile up until a week ago. Which visa did you apply for?

I am sooo sorry you're having trouble!  I'm crossing my fingers for you--that you'll be able to find whatever documentation you need, or that you'll be able to prove that it no longer exists.  Best of luck!!!!!!

Jo!!! Email me, call me, something!!! I can't believe it. This is just awful. Good luck to you, sweetie. You have to come back!!

Can you be specific?  You went for a spousal, and they refused your application - or they rejected it?  If the former, it means the clock is ticking and what EXACTLY was their grounds?   Being specific can help...

  OMG Jo that is sooo sad I literally got tears in my eyes when I read your post. Honey everything will work out fine, don't you worry! We are praying for you here BIG HUGS 

just wanted you to know i now have all documents i need... I HOPE!!! am about to file online again... they didnt take my application in nyc i was not denyed my visa they said you need 2 things when you get em try again  and handed me back my application... no money was taken... nothing was processed... so now i will file again... pay online and pray they wont need an interview cause im broke now... i am going to be at my daughters house i will not have access to a pc... but i will try to find one to keep updates... thank you for caring thank you for praying and hopin and wishing.... Jo

i was not denyed my visa

A simple rejection...  That's not so bleak!  In less amiable counties, if the Consulate does not have a missing document, they refuse outright.