I have no idea where to put this, so I am sorry if it's in the wrong place..
I have been married to my husband since December 2010, and I thought at first that we were an amazing couple (like most everyone!), and that we would make it.. But of course, it isn't perfect. There have been some tough times- arguments, me getting frustrated with him because he doesn't listen nor *speaks* to me about things, such as being honest about his feelings, him getting embarrassed by me in public when I try to discuss about interesting academic topics I had been studying just the day or so in university and therefore, attempts to shut me up by facing the other way and ignoring me, lying...
However, the BIGGEST issue of all is when I found some explicit pictures of several different women on his laptop, and when I confronted him about it, he lied, of course. And a very ridiculous lie at that; and I cannot believe he actually thought I was stupid enough to believe it. He says he never cheated, but I really find that hard to believe now, especially when he's in the Royal Navy and away often..
There are some other issues that I'm having with this.. and things that I accept, as well, such as him not getting what he needs with me and vice versa..
If we were to separate, would this look bad to the UKBA, considering I only got my settlement visa last December?
I appreciate any advice.