Thanks very much Sirius!
I'm still a bit unclear as to whether I apply for this outright or whether I am considered for it if they are not happy with my FLR(M) application....does anyone know this?
Basically, my plan now is to do everything I can to NOT be in this position...just hoping the timing job-wise all work itself out
Looking on immigrationboards, they seem to be just putting them on this family 10 year route if they are refused
and have a British child with them in the UK, which you will have. They received a 30 month visa with a letter stating why they didn't get the visa they applied for. I can't link you to that site because last time I did that, my post was deleted. You will have to google. I don't know if this automatically being put on the family route if you have a British child, will still work like that when the NHS levy starts.
If the '10 year a legal', route to ILR remains and they don't change the rules for those on this family 10 year visa, it seems your wife could apply for ILR when she completes 10 years legal stay in the UK.i.e. the time already spent on her spouse visa will be counted towards that 10 years. I'm happy to be corrected if someone has read something that says otherwise.
These are only internet forums though. Perhaps take advise from a
good immigration solicitor if you need to use that route?