We do have a home here in Chicago that we could sell, but it was supposed to be our nest egg.
That equity needs to be in your account before you apply for a visa. Will they hold that job for you?
I'm going to try to talk to the (potential) employer again to see if we can't me onto a work sponsored visa--but I'm afraid they are fairly certain that is not possible.
A sponsorship licence holder knows what jobs they can sponsor. The UK only offer about 20,700 of those visas per year and they are quite strict now on the level of the job, pay, proving there is nobody else who can do that job ect.
https://www.gov.uk/tier-2-general/overviewThe only other thing I can think of is to help my wife find a job and get an offer letter using some of the contacts in her field.
She would need to have a job in the US earning at least £18,600 AND a contract for a job in the UK within 3 months of her return earning at least £18,600, for you to move to the UK with her.
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she would need that job in the UK earning at least £18,600 for at least 6 months, before you could apply to join her in the UK.