So i think this is the appropriate message board.
I posted on the wrong one i believe. (i'm new, don't judge me)
but anyone else here struggling with having refusal
and trying to see a loved one? I called immigration law
and US & British citizen's advise they all said the same thing
that i should be fine with the documents I have. without a visa
but I'm fearing to be refused.
has anyone gone through the trouble of refusal and NOT needing a visitor visa with success of getting in the country?
I'm believing it's not wise to mention i have a boyfriend, but i am going to leave when i need to. I have a job here in the netherlands [im a us citizen] but i have to leave the schengen area for my visa process, still being allowed in the EU. Can anyone give me additional advice i could find useful for when I return? I really need kind helpful words and i still have a bit of anger towards the customs officer who RUINED my birthday earlier this year. It has really torn my relationship a bit, and we are both dealing with great amounts of anxiety and our health is deteriorating emotionally and mentally. it's really hard for both of us, especially since i don't really have good ties with my own family... he's all i have :/