I want to make sure I get the timing correct. We arrived in the UK under the spousal visa on May 8, 2014. Our visa expires in January 2017. When is the possible earliest date we should apply for the FLR(M) so that we won't have to worry about the shortfall of the second visa and applying for the ILR?
The earliest date you can apply is 28 days before you reach 30 months in the UK.
If you entered on May 8th 2014, you will reach 30 months on November 8th 2016. Therefore the earliest you can apply is 28 days before November 8th, which is 11th October 2016.
I need to get my application started as soon as I can as my fixed term contract with my employer ends the day my visa expires. And even though I know I can still work in the UK while the application is being processed my employer will not extend my contract if there is no new visa.
If you can afford to pay the extra to apply in person (and don't have a complicated application), you can get a same day decision, and your BRP card (visa) will arrive in the post within 7-10 days, so you should have your visa well in advance of your contract expiring.
If you apply by post though, it can take anywhere from 1-6 months for it to be processed (generally it's been 1-2 months recently).
On top of all this my husband was diagnosed with heart failure and we have been dealing with all that too.
Sorry to hear that - I hope he's okay.
And it's not a dumb question - a lot of people find the timing confusing
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