Ok but what if we get refused on lack of evidence for not sending enough info?
You won't. I've seen hundreds, if not thousands, of people successfully apply for fiance and spousal visas over the last 9.5 years, sending only what I've listed above.
It's a tick-box visa and 95-98% of visa applications made in the US are approved. As long as they can tick off that you have included evidence of regular contact (his visit to the UK and a few chat logs), that is all that is needed for that part of the application.
By sending too much, you end up paying more in postage, giving the poor employees in Sheffield a ton more work to do than they need to, and you risk your important documents getting lost amongst all the unnecessary ones and not being seen.
we have put in all relevent info gonna shave off some chat history also problem is weve only been together 1 year so dont want it to look dodgy
That is not a problem - as long as you show you are in regular communication with each other and the relationship is genuine, it doesn't matter how long you've been together.
If you've been together 1 year and he's spent 6 months of that in the UK, then you need to show 6 months of chat conversation.
So, I would screenshot maybe 1 chat instance per week for the 6 months - so 24 chat dates/times and list them on a couple of sheets of paper.
Or, if it won't let you pick and choose one per week, do one or two screenshot from each month, showing a few dates, and print them on as few sheets of paper as possible.
And so what about these vfs shipping labels we paid 276 dollars and there almost useless
Why 276 dollars? Doesn't the shipping cost $227?
They are also not useless - assuming you've confirmed that they are the correct labels, then it's UPS who are in the wrong here.
Can you try a different UPS store instead? It may just be the employees at the store you are going to who are telling you they are the wrong labels.
You've paid all this money, so I would stand your ground and refuse to leave until they accept the labels.
im wondering if this vfs is dodgy tbh i mean theres literally no phone numbers or anything no1 is emailing me back how the heck do i post everything and especially if its over the 5lbs mark 😢😢😢
They are not dodgy - they are UKVI's commercial partners... they provide visa services all over the world. It's UKVI who have arranged the shipping service, and are just offering the service through VFS Global's website.
If you take out everything we've suggested, it should be less than 5 lbs anyway.
The limit is 5 lbs because you should not need to include so many documents that it weighs any more than that.