So yesterday I unpacked both suitcases, then repacked the larger one with a very critical eye. Good coat? Yes. Ratty old bathrobe? No. Good tshirts? Yes. Tshirts with stains/tiny tears? No. 5 sweaters? Packed the two newest, best ones. There were 30 pairs of underwear and 27 pairs of socks. I packed 7 and 7. Do I really and truly need 15 pairs of jeans and yoga pants? No I do not. 2 pairs jeans and 2 yoga pants. One pair of pajamas.
3 bras, not 8. My really nice clothes were already shipped. 3 pairs of shoes, not 8. Got the suitcase crammed full, then looked at the leftovers. Nothing I couldn't live without. I figured with the age of the items, the monetary value was not worth even the extra baggage fee. So I made up a bag for Goodwill. I gave my extra brand new suitcase to exwife 2. Problem solved.