I'll add more details as I'm able, but I'm on my phone now and fisgured I'd least say hello and raise my hand.
Apparently I'm in the same boat as marenleigh - I applied (for the second time) from the US for a spousal settlement. Application started late February, standard time since I had already been declined once, priority wouldn't have done much, and come to find late May that my BRP is available at the location it was supposed to be at. No decision email, letter, phone call - just the BRP notification. Spouse checked in person and sure enough it's there.
After numerous calls, escalations, and pleas to the spouse to contact their rep, I'm still sans passports (I sent my expired one too) all my private documents with all sorts of sensitive data, and of course the 2.5 year overpriced visa.
What is going on at the home office?!? I see me, and two others in the span of two weeks missing their stuff?!? Maybe calling the MPs isn't enough, in America we use the news to hold our government agencies accountable but I'm not sure how well that works in the UK...