Hello there. I've been lurking on this forum for a while now.
I'm getting married to my girlfriend this September, and we hope to have her over here in UK on a spousal visa soon after.
Maybe it's a bit too soon for this thread, but I thought it would be prudent to ask some questions now, rather than lack knowledge and make mistakes later! Basically I want to know what our prospects are and if our schedule will work.
Quick facts:Laura lives in Hayward, CA and is a US citizen. I live in Scotland and am a UK citizen.
She will be 21 after August, I am 21 now*.
We met online about 5 years ago and we have visited each other for months at a time every year since - proving that we have met/are in a genuine relationship should not be a problem. I have been over there twice this year already.
Laura will be finishing her degree this year and currently works part time as a tutor at her uni. She does not have much in terms of savings, but she isn't hideously in debt either. I think her job prospects are arguably better than mine in that she will have a degree already when she comes over.
I currently earn just over £15k gross which roughly equates to over £900 p/m net. I have over £6000 currently in savings, and hopefully will have more by September. I am reasonably certain about my job security and I have payslips to prove I've been working here for over a year.
I currently live with my parents, but I understand that accommodation with parents is no longer accepted for spousal visas, so I'll be getting a lease for a 1 bedroom flat before I fly out in september. Is there a required duration for having a lease before applying? ie: Would I be able to get a flat in August and use the lease in the application? Or would I have to live there for longer? Being able to avoid paying rent for a while would certainly stave off some of the blows my wallet will be taking this year...
Rent seems to be in the range of £450/£500 a month for a decent place in Aberdeen (not really a housing downturn here
) but that should leave over £95 p/m even after electricity etc, surely?
Questions:We are getting married in the US on the 5th of September. It would have been sooner, perhaps, but we learnt that both parties now have to be over 21. Laura's birthday is in August. Is that cutting it a bit fine? I am 22 in November.
I've decided to send our stuff via courier, since I think the wait would kill me, and it would be great if we could fly back together. With a courier, how long does the application take to process on average from the LA branch?
That leads onto the next question: how many days holiday should I take when I fly over? Would it be smarter to wait for the results of the application before booking Laura's flight?
Last one for now, and it seems like a silly question:
I've lost my NI card - is it essential?
Thanks very much for any responses. This is a scary process (I'm sure many of you can relate) but hopefully it won't be so bad if we've got our facts in order.
*Young, I know, but we feel we are sufficiently mature for this step.