Oops, feeling bad for calling you jfk a few times! Sorry.
Do not feel bad! Text-based forums where we all use usernames are different to dinner parties where there's a handshake and introduction. UKY doesn't count!
I was taught to always call people how they've been introduced, especially if they introduced themselves.
Yes! This is how we should all be taught. I don't ever remember being taught that, but I was very "literal" growing up, so if someone told me their name was something, that is what I called them.
Whatever name someone tells me is theirs - that is the one I call them. I am constantly amazed when I hear everyone else around me shortening the name and the person is quite happy for that. Why didn't they tell me that from the beginning?
My brother's wife is called Jessica. For years I called her Jessica. Then one day
my sister said, you know she goes by "Jess" or "Jesse", right? I mean, she was a permanent fixture in the family home by the time my sister said that to me. I didn't notice I was the only one usibg her full name. And it turned out she preferred the shortened name.
I was introduced to a girl at work being told her name was Maria. I met her again a few days later and everyone was calling her Ronel. Why didn't she tell me that? Her first name was Maria and her middle name was Petronella. What can I say?
In a case like that, if someone made the introduction using the "real" name, but she had a different preference, Ronel should have immediately said, "It's nice to meet you. Please, call me Ronel."
Am I old enough to moan about missing manners in today's society? Can I yell at people to get off my lawn, too? Geez.