It's been ages since I've been on this thread, so first thing is -
Congratulations to all those who have been successful getting their visas lately! Well done!!
It's now working day 10 on our visa wait. Starting to get really disheartened now about us being together for Christmas. Makes me so angry that they treat people like this and don't give you any updates on what's happening
This is truly an awful process, and the combination of exorbitant fees and almost total lack of information as to where an individual application stands, is frustrating in the extreme. I realize this won't make a lick of difference to you now - you want to be with your Sweetheart on Christmas, and I don't blame you at all!
At the time I was waiting for my Fiance Visa (back in August) every day was horrible, then seeing some people (who applied at the same time) get their visas back before I did was so frustrating! What the heck was going on? Had they lost my application? Who, what, why, where, when - over and over I would wonder. Now I can look back and see that it was less than a week, I am here, and all is well (for the most part anyway - those fees are still exorbitant!
). I'm truly not expecting that to be of comfort to you now, you are in that same awful spot and it is no fun. Worse, I hope I don't come off as condescending - I really hate that myself. Just letting you know you aren't alone and I'll keep my fingers crossed that you and your Sweetheart are together in the same time zone on Christmas Day.