Hello everyone,
My husband just called me this morning to let me know he has the Visa money saved, finally, and is now working on the plane tickets. My poor long-suffering hubby, sitting at home every night with beans on toast to save the money! I love him! Okay, anyway, we are getting all the paperwork together to apply. And every day I think of some new reason to freak out about how our app may be denied. Today it is the budget!
I have downloaded some budget spreadsheets I found on here by Meg - they are amazing and once I put the figures in I was shocked to see how much we have left over. I can't figure out how that happened. What bills do we have to include in the budget? I put in rent, council tax, gas, water and electric, phone, internet, and bus fare for my husband. We dont have television, we dont drive, we dont have credit cards or any other expenses. We do spend money on food, clothes, toiletries, household products, and entertainment. Do I include those things too, before we take out the 95 pound extra? For once in my life I am glad that we are so poor and live so simply!! Our house is dirt cheap and though we want to move very badly, it is really helpful right now to have such low expenses.
One other question, if anyone might know the answer. It is driving me crazy with worry. Once I get my visa, I will be flying over to the UK with my ten year-old daughter. She is staying with us for the summer so she can see where we live, meet her extended family, and possibly make a decision about who she wants to live with. Her father here in America won't sign any papers to let her stay with me until she tries it out first. If she does decide she wants to stay, at the end of the summer we will fly back together and apply for her visa then, in August most likely. We are getting return tickets for the end of August.
I was wondering if this would cause any problems with my visa app. I am going to indicate that she is travelling with me, and explain the details. I am worried however that another dependent may affect our budget somehow and that we may get denied. I know that in real life we have more than enough to live on and that our expenses are not going to go up very much with her there. I was also thinking that I would be able to factor in the child maintenance fees I am receiving, even though they are in dollars and as such, are not much money. I was wondering if anyone has encountered a situation like this before. how they handled it and what the outcome was? All advice is appreciated! Thanks so much.