Thankyou everyone, Sonya looks like 10 years have dropped off and the dark circles went lol, and yes we are glad we took the amount we did it really helped as the lady had a choice of things which she said really helped her, over all the appointment went really well the lady was great really nice she asked me if I enjoyed living here and I said yes as I am with Sonya and the boys, and we talked about her children also, and she made us feel totally at ease, the only complaint is the chairs where chained to the floor which ment I could not get to the counter well and the one chair sort of ended up on its side in a weird postion.
They did not look at any personal statements (bank) at all they wanted to see sonyas self emploment stuff tax and NI contributions and that was it we pointed out we had savings and she just said I don't need to see that you have enough money coming in and thats fine we were really surprised.
We saw Nik there with her baby she is tiny and very pretty and very asleep.
Indy