Thank you all,
I will just be visiting this time around, and get married in the US when we're ready.
I have looked into BUNAC, and am trying to arrange an internship through them, the trouble is that I would have to arrange the position myself before applying through BUNAC...And it seems I would have to pay a program fee of $750, in addition to the cost of the visa. Why do they charge such a high program fee when (it seems like) they don't really do much for you?