Thanks, MandyBoo.
At least my husband and I aren't separated. We are here together in the US. We will be married seven years this October. For us, life in the US is just something we no longer wanted. But at least as you say we are together.
I too think it's important that we try and support one another. On the other hand, I think the rules themselves will only add to the bickering, as they are after all fostered on the public opinion of UK elitists. I have read recently on uk-yankee the term "fringe cases". I read this term not quite knowing what to make of it. Is someone earning less than £18,600 living on the fringe of society? And that is the opinion of people living in a society ordered by social safety nets?
And so it seems the undesirables will be seen posting less on uk-yankee. And living in other countries.
Like myself and my ex-pat husband.
I am glad you aren't separated at least, that is such a huge thing to have is eachother. Yeah, I agree, I just hate to see people get so bent out of shape and arguing. But it is understandable because people get frustrated, I know as I was/am one of them but I tend to go a little crazy so I thought it was best to stay away from the site until I cooled off and got my head on straight.
I'm not quite sure what to think of that either. I've never heard of that one before. Wasn't the current (not for long though) threshold £13,800 or something? Because I'm pretty sure people have been well off on that income. But.. the more I think of these new rules, the more it really pisses me off and I just wish I had Theresa May in front of me so I could give her a punch square to the nose. Would never ever happen, but I can dream can't I? (Although I sense I'd have to stand in line behind the people's lives she's screwing with that already live there)
However, this change has given me a whole new kind of respect for immigrants. Because now I know what it's like to not be wanted. Well, too bad for them, they will not keep me away from the person I want to be with. We will somehow make these requirements come hell or high-water.
No problem at all .
I was actually in a similar boat to your boyfriend at age 26. I was living with my parents, working in retail, and unable to find a good-paying graduate job.
I spent 9 years working in retail, earning just above minimum wage (age 18 to 27), first while I was at university and then for 3 years after I graduated. I didn't even start paying off my student loan until 2010 (I graduated in 2005) because I didn't earn above the minimum salary threshold for paying it off (£15,000) until I was 27.
Honestly, I'm not sure of the exact impact of the EEA immigrants on UK immigration (someone recently suggested that they aren't as big a problem as is made out, but I don't know the exact numbers), but a couple of months ago, there was a news segment on TV about the influx of immigrants in Lincolnshire cities.
They were trying to tie it in with the new proposals from Teresa May and talking about how the new proposals might affect the immigrants living here... problem was, all the people they focused on in the segment were actually EEA citizens (mainly from Poland as there is a large Polish community here) who won't be affected by the new rules anyway!
Well, I will definitely keep you in mind when I'm down then! Just remember that someone else was in his situation and now they are well off.
I'm not 100% of their impact either, I'm just kind of going off a lot of things I've read. A lot of people make it seem like they just pack up their EEA families and move to the UK. Does anyone know where to see this kind of net migration on the matter so I may educate myself? Huh.. well, I don't find that too surprising. But hopefully down the line they eventually do something about EEA immigration as well
Awe. Thank you. It's my pleasure. I really think you guys can do this though. I'm rooting for you!
Thanks a bunch, it means a lot. He's actually going to bring me over in October this year, (crossfingers). Which if that happens it'd be the most we'd ever saw eachother in person in a year, three times if this pans out. I really hope we can make that happen, then I can celebrate my 21st birthday a month early. Hopefully when I'm legal here in the states as well, then the Brits won't try to get me hammered, lol. Have never been drunk and some are well and determined to get me there. No thank youuuu.