I need some advice on the above. I am a UK citizen. 4 years ago I visited the USA on a Visa waiver to see my American girl friend, decided to stay and get married which we did.
We filed all the necessary paperwork at Detroit for me to be able to stay and work in the US (Green card). They refused my application. My wife had to have replacement knee surgery and needed my help so I stayed in the US Illegally. I was eventually deported (my own costs) 16 months ago (5year ban) . My wife and Stepdaughter are still in the US. We filed an appeal through our Detroit lawyer, which eventually was heard in the US Embassy in London 4 weeks ago. The appeal was denied, they informed me that I would have to go down the “Hardship for an US citizen" route, which to be honest we don't want to do as it would take even more money, we would still be separated for I don't know how long, and there is no guarantee it would be successful.
SO.
I have a few questions on bring my Wife and Step daughter to the UK to live.
As I have already stated I am a UK citizen. I am working, presently living at my Mum's House (3 bedrooms, plenty of room for all of us). My Wife and I have savings of about $20,000 US.
I have heard about the 4 years marriage thing for ILR, we haven’t been married 4 years until September 2009, should we leave it until then, even though we have been separated for 16 months. Does that make a difference?
If we have to leave it until September, can my wife and stepdaughter come over on a visitor’s visa in July so my Stepdaughter can start school, and then return for a few weeks to get the Spousal visa sorted out in the US in September, or is it better just for them to come over in July and do the conditional 2 years?
My stepdaughters’ father is ok with the move. What sort of letter do we need from him? Or do we have to go to court for something official?
If I decided to rent a house for us, would I be entitled to Housing benefit, family credit, council tax credit etc?
My wife is a Blue badge holder in the US due to her Arthritis; would she be able to get that benefit over here?
Any help or direction to a good Immigration lawyer would be fantastic!