Is a "returning resident" visa possible or should we just forget that and start over ? I hear this visa mentioned but have not heard of anyone getting one.
From what I've heard, a returning resident visa is extremely difficult to get, and it is more often than not refused. I haven't heard of anyone on the board here being granted one.
Could we get ILE automatically without starting over, as a previous post suggested, based on the fact that I had ILR ? Has anyone done this ?
You won't be able to get ILE based on you having ILR previously, but you will be able to get ILE based on being married and living outside the UK together for 4 years or more. However, in order to get ILE directly from the US, you must have already taken the Life in the UK (KOL) test... but, the life in the UK test can only be taken in the UK.
So you would have 2 options:
1) Fly to the UK as a visitor, take the test, fly back to the US and then apply for a spousal visa, requesting that you be given ILE based on being married for 4 years and having passed the KOL test.
2) Apply for a regular spousal visa in the US and ask for it to be endorsed with 'KOL Req'd' based on being married for 4 years (this allows you to bypass the 2-year spousal visa residency rule and apply for ILR as soon as you have passed the KOL test), move to the UK, take the KOL test as soon as you like and then apply for ILR from within the UK.
When would I have to have ILR by in order to get citizenship, under the old rules ?
You would need to have applied for ILR before July 2011, because the new rules of probationary citizenship will replace ILR in July 2011.
Does ILR become effective from the date of your application or the date it is granted ?
It will be effective from the date it is granted, but if you are applying for ILR in the UK, as long as the application is sent off before the rules change, then I believe you will be okay (as it can take several weeks/months for the ILR to be processed in the UK, unless you pay £200 extra to go in person and have a same-day decision).
When applying for your spousal visa/ILE in the US, if you hire a visa expediter to hand-deliver your application to the consulate, which means it gets put to the front of the processing line, it could be approved in as little as 24-48 hours. If you don't use an expediter, you're looking at a wait of 60-90 business days for processing.
Hope this makes sense
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