Thanks for all the helpful info, I think I ‘get it’ now. We’ll be seeing a solicitor to get the will drafted and will discuss with her, also my accountant. I can’t advise her to anything too clever or complicated as she won't understand it and will worry, or worse will think I’m trying to ‘steal her money’🙄
Thanks for the advice re: the amounts that can be given from excess income, this certainly applies here, but again it’s difficult to get her to understand the amount of money she has and her her income versus her typical outgoings and her life expectancy. When I suggest spending to buy up things that I think would improve her life the answer is often ‘but I might need that money’. Once frugal always frugal I guess!