Honesty - even when it hurts!

Dear Forum
Some of you have read the post from my hubby here in this section - and probably draw a breath and thought wow!!!! and then moved on.  But can I asked you to stop and think for just a moment.

How many of you felt exactly like this while you where going through the process of being together and how many of you are feeling like that now.  I know what my husband wrote would have touched many of you and in some cases I hope you feel like you are not alone in what you feel, we feel it too!!!

The one thing I love most about my husband is the fact that he willing to go to those places with me that most men dont (no offense meant to any of the gentlemen here - I am taking this from my own prospective).  We share the fun stuff, scary stuff and the things that frighten us both to death, we light the candle for the other, take hold of their hand  and lead each other out of our darkness.

To date there is a level of honesty in our relationship that not only continues to surprise me but it also surprises everyone around me that has seen myself and Jared together.  It then made me wonder how honest we really are with those around us, do we not share or tell people stuff because we want to protect them, and if that is the case are we doing more damage. 

I came out of a 20 yr relationship that had no honesty in it and you could not and were not allowed to be free and I value that now more than ever in a relationship, and I am finding that I am learning more about myself every day and like the things that I find.

I wonder how may of you are finding that yourself  , and what do you like about it?  Be honest even when it hurts!! 

Jade XxX