Woo, she got the spousal visa in New York about five minutes ago. Got a worried call from her half an hour ago because we'd forgotten to sort out proof of ownership of my parent's house. So some frantic phoning round, and I ended up downloading the title deeds from
www.landregisteronline.gov.uk [nofollow] and faxing them over.
I'll put a longer message on the visa stories bit about exactly what we enclosed.
Thanks again to everyone who helped, expecially VictoriaS, I'm pretty sure we'd have been totally screwed without you.
Mr and Mrs. Tim