Your marry your British guy.
23 months after you get your Further/Limited Leave to Remain after marrying him, then you apply for Indefinite Leave to Remain.
Once you have Indefinite Leave to Remain AND have lived in the UK for 3 years AND haven't been out of the UK for more than 270 days in those 3 years, no more than 90 days in the last year, then you can apply for BRITISH citizenship. You will not be applying for EU citizenship.
However, holding British citizenship AND a British passport means that you can travel and live and work within the EU as any other British citizen could.