Okay, here's some background:
I moved to the UK in August 2005 as a student and moved in w/ my brit bf (jmaster911) Steve. We are planning on making it permanent sometime in the fall of 2006 - nothing has been official yet. I will live in the UK with him, but we both want to move to the US eventually in about 2-4 yrs. He has an excellent job here and tons of references and experience, but no college degree. I will have my masters in summer 2006 and will look for a job here (I also have some prof exp from the states). Has anyone done this? Started over completely in the states after living in the UK?
We have no idea how much savings we'll need or even where to start with it. I figure we get a month to month lease somewhere near my family and have about 6months savings to live on for jobhunting. Once Steve gets a job, I'll look for one in the same location, maybe working while he's looking too somewhere. Any advice and experience is most helpful. We both desire to eventually settle in the states, yet prefer some time here before we make the big leap b/c he has a son that is 14 and we want to be there for him before we go to the states.
Thank you so much for any advice.

PS: I know this is OT, but does anyone know once we're married and we move to the US, how long is it before my brit can work?