Christmas without the kids

I know a few gals are going to be without some kiddies this xmas asthey are going back to the USA to visit family. My two eldest sons are going to the exhusbeast on Friday and Im going crazy knowing they wont be here for xmas. I just wanted to send out huge hugs for those of you going through the same thing.

Also, just wondering what you are doing for their Christmas? Will you celebrate when they get back or before they go? We are having normal Christmas on Christmas day because of the other kids we have but we will also have a small Christmas when they get back where they will get all their gifts from us. I am giving them each a gift for them to take on the plane with us before we go but the rest will wait for their return.

Ricki, not having kids, I can only imagine how sad it must be to not be with your kids on Christmas. Big hugs to you!

Peter will not be able to see his kids in Germany for Christmas because we still don't have our passports back from the Home Office. We sent a big package with a lot of fun little gifts, but it is hardly a substitute for Peter to be able to see them or their faces when they open their packages. For him, though, Christmas is no more difficult than any of the other days that he doesn't get to spend with them.

Hugs Pebbles and all the other parents who will be apart from their kids this Xmas.

It must be tough not being with your children for the holidays.  I feel for anyone who has to go through that.
We are in a similar position with my fiancé's children.  His lovely ex-partner decided that they are staying "home" (with her) for Christmas Eve and Christmas Day, and for Boxing Day, the kids are going to their step-grandmother's.  Nice to fit Dad in there anywhere!

Big hugs to you Ricki! I can't imgaine what you are going through. I have to split the holidays up with my ex but my son is only across town for a day or two! My heart goes out to you. I bet the boys will miss you and be just as excited to be coming home to you and your family after their visit. Here's hoping the visit goes quickly and they are back before you know it!  I hope you find peace and joy through all of this and I wish you a safe trip! 

I hope it's not too hard for any of you!  I can't imagine what it is like!