I know this has probably been asked tons of times before, but I really am confused. I've looked through most of the archives and I still have loads and loads of questions.

I apologize in advance if this question has been over-asked to death.
My situation is that my boyfriend is a New Zealander citizen that is on Permit Work Visa Leave to the UK and currently lives there and has for the past four or so years. I live in California. Yes, yes. We met on the internet. And yes, we have met in person. Rather recently, actually. I just got back from England this week and the trip pretty much prompted us to make plans for us to live together in the UK.
But I'm confused on what visa I should apply for. I want to live and hopefully, work in the UK to help support us financially, but I have no clue which visa I need to apply for. I can't apply for a Unmarried Visa because we haven't lived together for two years, and I can't apply for a Fiancee Visa because we aren't engaged. (Yet.) I'm kind of at the end of my rope. I want to be with him so badly to the point I'm ready just to pick up all my stuff and just move there illegally. Which, I'm afraid, isn't the best of ideas.
Does anyone have any advice? Ideas?
