Sorry, maybe I posted something not clearly, but they insist I must apply for the UP.
That was what they said on the first time:
You would not be able to apply for an EEA Family Permit im afraid because at this moment in time it is not available to unmarried partners. There is another Visa for this purpose called an unmarried partners Visa. The Unmarried partners Visa is a Settlement Visa.
And the second time they meant they can accept an Unmarried Partner application of a EEA citizen's partner, applying as Unmarried Partner, with form VAF-2.
Do you know any solicitor that would be able to assist us in Ireland?
Thanks!