Hi again

I'm coming up with different answers to my questions and I figured I might as well just ask and see if someone here can clarify things for me. Ok. this post is really nothing _but_ questions....

My honey and I got my fiancee visa on april 12th.
It is dated to become active July 6th (the day we plan on flying over to the UK).
We've set our wedding date for Oct 21st.
After we get married, what exactly _is_ the next step? I know that at some point I am supposed to apply for FLR, but does that clock start the moment I enter the UK, or does it only start after our wedding is done (it's a civil ceremony). (the fiancee visa is at the 6 month point in january 07)
Is FLR the same as a marriage visa?
Do I apply for one of those once we've got the marriage license?
And how long do I have to apply for it? (and am I correct in thinking it's in Croydon if we want to do it in person?) Do I apply immediately?

After I apply (and am hopefully approved for FLR) how long do I wait to apply for ILR?
And if I want to naturalize after that, is the 3 years from the time I am married, the time I am granted FLR, or the ILR?
And also, I know that part of the supporting documents to apply need to include my name as well as my DH's name on them.
Can these be council tax bills? Water bills?
Can there be correspondence that only have my name on them?
What is the best kind of correspondence and papers to save/use/collect for this purpose?
Will it matter that until we are married (oct) that for the first few months any correspondence will have my maiden name on it?)
I'm trying to forestall any problems.
I'm sorry if these have been asked a million times.

thanks
