We starting chatting online in 1998 (he was 16, I was 18) and became good friends. We spoke on the phone a lot and helped each other through break-ups. We would go through periods were we wouldn't speak (sometimes for six months), but we always came back to each other and it was like we never stopped speaking, so we knew we were at least great friends.
Anyway, in 2003 I was going through a bad break-up (divorce actually) with someone that I wasn't with for very long, but it was a very hard time and he and his long-term girlfriend just broke up so we spoke a lot and realised we had deep feelings for each other. On an impulse I asked if he wanted to meet me and fly to America and of course he said yes. So, he flew out three months later and we've been together since

We saw each other three - four times a year. We were married in November 2005 and I moved to Scotland a month ago.