My friend is a bit of a stresser and when she got married, she was one grumpy bride! Finally, I could see that she was on the verge of tears so I appointed myself her field agent. I shooed everyone out, and anyone who wanted to tell/ask her something went through me first. There were so many small little things that were not a big deal and would have upset her had she known about them at the time, but I fielded them first. Basically I ordered people around for her. Do you have anyone who you can put this job on? I wasn't her MofH, but I sorta took that onto myself and she said it made her way less stressed and in a much better mood in the end!