i think life insurance makes you ask really difficult/touchy questions. if i were in your position, i'd ask myself & have a conversation with hubby along these lines:
1- if i were to get seriously ill, had to leave work, how would we cope? could we manage for 1 month, 3 months, 6 months?
2- if you were to get seriously ill, had to lave work, how would we cope? coudl we manage for 1 month, 3 months, 6 months?
3- if i were to die suddenly, could you cope financially?
4- if you were to die suddenly, could i cope financially?
personally, both my partner & I have 3 months worth of expenses in ISA. we're working on saving 6 months each. these would be used if one of us got ill. now, if one of us passed away, the other is still working, and so would not be financially effectted too much (looking just at finances here, not emotions).
but we're not married, we don't have kids, but we each own a house (we live together in one of them). if one of us passed away, the house belonging to that person would be sold and the surviving spouse would live in the other one.