I'll probably bring up the therapy thing online. I had mentioned to the therapist that I was in a LDR and if he did couples counseling. He said he hadn't tried it yet online, but does do couples counseling in person, but it would be possible to try it.
I think it would make me feel better. Regarding the issues, I just think it's an issue of expectations. He's been in more relationships than I have and his previous relationship was about 6-7 years. I followed after her. In the beginning things I think were ok because we were just trying to get to know each other.
Now, I think because we're strongly considering getting married (or engaged) and one of us would have to move, I think our expectations might differ. Granted it's not like some huge horrible thing, but there are times where I feel I'm taken for granted. And I don't want to end up resenting him all the time. I've tried to deal with it on my own and change my behavior/feelings so I don't feel that way, but it still happens. I've tired to talk to him, but it hasn't worked. I don't want things to get worse and I feel that he's not understanding why I feel that way. It normally ends up in an argument (this happened during my visit the other week).
I want to get that sorted out. That's my biggest concern.
I think if that's resolved plus just talking through the "What if's" and any other fears or concerns, I'd definitely feel more comfortable being with him long term.
