Ummm. My HSMP EC is valid until 16-Oct-09. All this time my gf (UK citizen) and I were planning a wedding for Dec '09 - Jan '10, which was fine 'caus I'd've already extended my EC under Tier 1 General for another three yrs by then.
Out of the blue yesterday my parents suggested (don't ask) that we should consider getting married on the most auspicious day of the Hindu calendar next yr (28-Sep-09) and my gf loved that idea incredibly (again, don't ask)
I'm trying to find out if that's even realistic considering my HSMP renewal timelines. I read on UKBA's website that they
"encourage you to apply one month before your leave runs out." Does anyone know how anal the Home Office is in implementing this "encouragement"..? Do they entertain circumstantial exceptions..?
Assuming the 30-day-encouragement is adhered to strictly, I can't send in my application until 16-Sep-09, in which case is it true to expect to have my passport back in my hands w/the new EC sticker before my HSMP expiry date (16-Oct-09)?
We'll be getting married in the UK but our plans would involve flying out to India soon thereafter, hence the current dilemma. It seems to be the most ideal plan and I really want to make it happen if I realistally can

Any inputs would be appreciated. Thanks for reading.