Hi there. I used UpakWeship.
They have a 'baggage' service, which ends up being lots cheaper than paying the extra bag fee of the airline. The first "bag" (which includes boxes, trunks, etc) is high, but each additional bag is much less. I came from rural Oregon Coast, so the cost of most places was just really, really high - and this was the best option.
I haven't received my shipment yet, but it's gone through customs, and I'm just waiting for the delivery folks to arrange a mutual time. I totally agree that you need some of your 'stuff' with you. This house won't seem like 'mine' until I get my stuff!