Not sure where to post this, but there is an organization in surrey called AWS or American Women of Surrey, predominantly based in Cobham and designed for wives of seconded businessmen.
I joined many years ago, but 99.9% of the activities at the time were during the day. As I work full time, I found it quite hard to get invoived, but I didn't know if it would be of use to anyone here
http://www.awsurrey.org/There is also an American Women of Berkshire and Surrey:
http://www.awbs.org.uk/I've heard good things, but never been involved with them
