Aimiloo, that menu sounds GORGEOUS!!! It's making my mouth water!
We're going to my cousins, along with another couple (kids included) and everybody is bringing something. So far it's an assortment of: bbq ribs, stuffed mushroom, steamed shrimp w/ cocktail sauce, cheese straws, meatballs, chips w/ guacamole, home made brownies, lemon merigne pie, champagne punch, etc. etc. a real pot luck.
But my goodness; it doesn't get more delectable than surf n turf....