Hi Starbuck,
I had my passport containing my FLR spousal visa stolen and have applied for TOC for my the visa to be transferred into my new American passport.
Sent application in 5 weeks ago and only did biometrics last week. I think where you got the 14 weeks processing time from is that they are advising we have to wait 14 weeks until we can enquire about our application (if god forbid it should last that long). I just spoke with Immigration Enquiry Bureau this morning as I wanted to know how things were progressing, if I sent in the correct documents in, how biometrics went. Absolutely no help.
Really had no idea what to put into my application as guidelines seemed vague. But I did a consolidated version of my original application, providing marriage cert, joint bank statements, lease agreement, letter from employer and GP as proof of identity and address, as well as copies of my stolen passport and spousal visa (I ALWAYS make sure to have hard and electronic copies of these things), police report re: stolen passport, and emails from Chicago consulate saying my original spousal application had been approved. Bundled it all together with a covering letter explaining my situation and to contact me should I need to provide any more info.
I know how you feel, having no personal identification for UK, proof of right to live and work here. Essentially, being a prisoner in the UK as you cannot leave and re-enter without the visa in the passport!
I suppose it's still early days, but my husband and I have been planning our 4 week holiday to Mexico at Xmas to see my family, and it's 10 weeks to go. Naturally, I'm super nervous.
If I could have afforded £460 odd to apply in person I would have for a same day decision! On a positive note, the US Embassy had my new passport ready for me to collect within 4 days of applying in person.
Let me know what you decide to do and how it's progressing! Hang in there.