Fears...

I was just wondering if I was the only person who had fears in leaving their partner behind.  I will be leaving the UK in about a week and I get all sorts of paranoid feelings at times like he wont be able to cope for the months we are away...  am I just a weirdo in having these fears?  He tells me I'm crazy to feel this way cuz how he feels for me but I cant help that they creep in sometimes.  Not that I think he would cheat or anything I know he loves me but its just coping with the distance.  When I leave I dont know when I'll be able to apply for the fiance visa as his divorce proceedings are just starting and I dont want to apply until he receives the decree nisi...  so it could be months.  I know plenty of people on here have been away for longer so I was wondering how do you cope and if these fears ever creep in?  Or am I just being overly paranoid at times.  UGH I HATE the thought of having to leave its just killing me inside!!!!

I know exactly how your feeling and so does your SO. The thing I've fount is Women cope much better on there own than men so he probably is feeling worse than you but he did what I did which is say stay strong even though inside it hits home.

Alot of people have gone through this and I am currently going through this at present. you just have to keep reminding yourself that everything will be alright. You have made it this far together and aslong as your both committed to each other and both give as much as the other and stay in touch at every possibility then it should all be fine.

I know about the killing you inside when I left her it felt like i left something behind and things did start to change between us and ill be honest we have faced some of the worst problems we will ever face. so my advice to you is dont sweat the small stuff because what is meant to be will be

hope everything is all ok... i noticed you have another post so ill read that and if you ever need to talk then you can always PM me I don't know alot but if its just someone to listen I can always do that