Phew okay ... done it
So .. all pre-arranged without g/f knowing ...
We drove 2 hours to a DooWop concert by The Reflections last Sunday in Michigan ... under the pretense that I'd been in contact with the group who wanted to invite me there as their guest.
So ... fourth song in the announcement came:
"We get people coming from all over the States to see us, but today we have someone from England, who not only is a big DooWop fan, but a singer too, and we'd like to invite him on-stage to help us out with "Sunday Kind of Love".
So, I get up there, sing it with the guys (fantaaastic), meanwhile G/F is up on the floor videoing this with her camera. After the song, I then do a short speech, get down on one knee, open the ring box and propose on stage over the microphone to her.
After she managed to start breathing again she said "yes"