Tally - THANK YOU!! DF is doing everything to avoid buying a tree stand.
Sorry to sidetrack this. But let me interject some comic relief.
DF bought a real tree for the first time (it's the first time I'll be there; told him real is the only way to go...love him!). I told him that you had to water it daily, but the smell and the real feel would be worth it. He fell for the bloke at the tree lot telling him "it will last until Christmas without water."
Help me come up with logical things

to convince him that 1) no plant can survive for a long time without water and 2) two pieces of wood hammered into a tree stump do not constitute a tree stand.
<<sigh>> Can't wait until I'm there in person to do this whole process.