We're north of West Lothian. But, I love Livingston and the great shopping there. I don't have kids in school, so can't really comment on that either. But, I think West Lothian is lovely. Easy access to the countryside and loads to do in the area.
Where are you moving from and what area will you or SO be working in?
One suggestion.. You could always use Google Maps street view and look at areas and get a pretty realistic picture of what it's like once you narrow down the area you're wanting to be in.