I can't help with the visa/interview specific questions as I've only ever applied for student and visitor visas for the US, but I can help with the third one:
3. Can you take a cell phone to the embassy and check it in at the guard station? I remembering going to the Embassy once (can't remember what for) and I took my cell phone and had to check it at the guard station. Wondering if that is still the process.
No, they will not hold any cell phones for non-US citizens (apparently they will hold them in the US citizen services section, but they won't for people applying for visas).
He either needs to not bring the cell phone with him at all, or he can check it in at a local pharmacy down the road (can't remember the name of it off the top of my head) - they will hold it for him for a couple of pounds while he is in the embassy.
He also cannot take any other electrical items into the embassy with him at all - that includes mp3 players, e-book readers, electric car keys etc.
I went for a visa interview there in September and although I'd remembered to take out all my electrical items before going to the embassy, I completely forgot that my car keys are electric... so I had to leave the queue to get in the building and run down the street (in the rain) to put it in storage at the pharmacy
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