I'm in the same position Suzanne, though my mother is younger, but now in her 2nd bout of cancer I feel the same urgency. Seems silly maybe, but when she dies (as I assume she isn't immortal, though she is full of surprises!) some day, making those recipes of hers will be a way of connecting with her. There are so many recipes of hers that I've been meaning to get for ages: her own magical versions of zucchini bread, meatloaf, seven layer bars, blueberry muffins, etc... but every time I visit it ends up at the bottom of the list. What I need to do is just raid her recipe box, sit on the couch, and type them uip on a laptop while she's talking to me!!