. . .So its MFS and NRA and the UK husband's income is not on the return at all, this is very good, especially for the FAFSA, I have been on the phone back and forth with the college financial aid office trying to figure out how to do it with a foreign spouse and his income and also because I retired as a police officer this year and have half of 2012 at full salary and and half at a pension, so I am sure I will be asking questions next year on taxes for the UK/US with a US pension etc..... ![Smiley :)](https://www.talk.uk-yankee.com/Smileys/classic/smiley.gif)
Hi Stephanie,
First of all, I commend you for trying to help out your son with his college financial aid application(s). Unfortunately, if the parent(s) show assets (or income) that imply they have the money to pay for college, then it's generally presumed that they can and they should. But, the presumption is flawed. It's a real mixed bag of tricks and each individual's circumstance needs careful consideration, which in my own experience, I believe they fail to do.
So when my kid was "hitting up against a block wall" and not meeting the financial qualifications (to no fault of her own), she got creative and filed a Declaration of Emancipation.
If your son is not going to be living with you and if he effectively then is going to be responsible for himself, this might be something you can consider. I don't know if there's any special criteria that has to be met. My daughter was already living on her own and just mailed the declaration to me. I had to sign it and get it notarized and mail it back to her. She filed it and after that, was able to get a whole pile of financial aid that she wouldn't have been able to otherwise. Once emancipated, the parent's assets and income are no longer considered. Your child is looked upon as an adult in their own right.
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You must agree in the Declaration that you surrender the right to care and custody of the "child" and that you won't try to claim him on your future tax returns. Well, that wasn't a problem for me as we were already living apart and I wasn't claiming her anyway. So there's an idea thrown out for ya if it will help with the financial aid thing.
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Additionally, you shouldn't have to wait for your UK husband to visit in order to take his name off your bank account. If the account is in Joint Tenancy, eg.. Your Name
or His Name, you should be able to close it no problem, then take the funds and re-open a new account in your name. Just make sure if it's a checking account that there are no outstanding debits or checks when you close the account.
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