So my hubby moved back to the UK in February after his mother was hospitalized. His mum passed soon after. I went over just before she passed and again for the funeral. And you may know from my post we are having some difficulties obtaining a visa.
Anywho, I am having a rough time today and just need to vent. We have been married for over 8.5 years and never spent this amount of time apart..... and yes we talk everyday but it is not the same.
So we were hoping I would be there by now and on July 4th they requested more financial info which we sent off. Not sure if it is satisfactory or not, but with the recent court ruling, we know they are pausing visas that dont meet the financial requirements. So now, do to the fact we have to keep his savings in the bank, I am having to move in with my parents at the end of August to save my funds. In doing this I have to ship my cat, who I have had longer than I have been with my hubby, as my parents have 2 cats and 3 HUGE dogs. My kitty doesnt play nice with other animals.
So now I am extremely sad, and angry, with the UKBA for tearing my small family apart. We didn't ask for our situation and werent planning on moving for another couple of years, but it just sucks. We dont want to sell the house as it has been in his family since before he was born.
At the moment all I want is to hug my hubby, but he is stuck there in lawsuits with DWP and the doctors who misdiagnosed his mums illness.
Anyway Thanks for letting me vent
