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Never ending bad luck
« on: August 19, 2013, 04:35:42 PM »
I was suppose to be applying for a fiance' visa after getting back from my UK trip in April. Before we could submit-my fiance recieved a notice about his ESA-which is bein reviewed. We have to wait to get the latest updated paperwork to apply. it's been over 2months. Last year they reviewed his DLA which took 3months and by the time we got the okay on that-my Nana was diagnosed with Breast cancer which caused us to delay the application as I ended up having to care for both my grandparents (Both have different cancers)

I feel like it's been one thing after another. Now last week, I got into a car accident, A Huge GMC envoy wasn't paying attention and slammed into my Eclipse at 40mph. The car may be totaled, I should find out this week. Thing is-When I sold that car it was suppose to be able to cover my airfare and luggage when I finally got my fiance' visa. If they total it, i'll be lucky to get 3k and I don't even know if there's a point in buying a new car.
I'm stuck in Limbo with constant bad luck it seems. Because of not having a car-I can't even get my fiance's birthday present in the mail and his bday is next week. This absolutely devastates me as even the simplest thing and I can't do it :(

Sorry I just needed to vent
Met online: 2001
Lost contact: 2005-2010
Found me on Facebook: 12-26-10
Officially dating: 4-9-11
Met in person: 5-5-11 *stayed 3wks in UK*
Met 2nd time: 9-29-11 *stayed 2wks*
Proposed: 10-9
3rd visit: 5-27-12 *3wk stay*
4th visit: 3-28-13 *3wk stay*
5th Visit: 05-13 to 11-3 2014
Fiance' Visa: 2015


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Re: Never ending bad luck
« Reply #1 on: August 20, 2013, 12:47:47 PM »
I'm sorry you're having such a bad time, Kismet89.
7/2000 - Emigrated USA to Canada
4/2008 - Met British partner
9/2009 - Moved to UK on Proposed CP/Fiance visa
12/2009 - Civil partnership
3/2010 - FLR(M)
2012 (? it's all a blur, but "old rules") - ILR
9/2013 - Naturalised/Right of Abode
2/2017 - Cannot leave UK until Canadian passport returned by the Home Office!


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Re: Never ending bad luck
« Reply #2 on: August 20, 2013, 03:35:12 PM »
Nothing wrong with venting Kismet89, I hope your luck turns around soon for you!


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