Hi Julezabelle,
My husband , 14 yr old son and I just re-located to Bury St. Edmunds, not too far from you. I see that you posted in July, and I'm not sure if you have arrived yet, but I wanted to let you know that the schools here are fantastic about helping newcomers and foreigners get started out. My son's school appointed him a buddy to show him around and give him an automatic group of friends to get know and hang out with at lunch and break. I was very worried about all the adjustment he would have to make, (he is quite shy) but he is doing really well thanks to the efforts of the school. I hope that helps a bit.
Also, we moved to the UK from Atlanta, but I also have Buffalo NY ties. My parents are from Buffalo and I was born in Gowanda. We moved to the south when I was younger but since both my parents are teachers, they maintained the family cottage near Evangola State Park, and that is where we spent every summer growing up. I love it there, and my parents still spend 4 months a year there. My husband started his job here in April, but I spent my last 6 weeks in the US at the cottage, swimming in the lake and enjoying their company and great food.
As a side note, the chicken wings here are very weird! Luckily, we have found they sell Franks hot sauce in Waitrose grocery stores so we can make our own!