hey beatlemania thanks for the reply
that sounds good then i think, she wants to use her married name in the UK, and have her passport be in her married name (makes opening joint accounts much easier etc)
however as for changing her name in the US for any other service i dont know when we will get round to doing that, which is why i was slightly concerned!
Hello!
From what I have read around the forum, and what I am doing myself, is leaving my BRP card and Passport in my maiden name until I am eligible for Indefinite Leave to Remain. I just got married to my British husband in July and I have not changed my name on my passport and have no intent to do so until I have to. It's REALLY easy to have your married name listed on joint accounts and on your NI number and bills, etc.
For my joint account and the NI number I just needed to have a copy of my Marriage Certificate to prove I was allowed to use the married name.
To change her name on the BRP card, you will have to pay for a new one because there are no mistakes on it made by the UKVI. They give you 10 days after receipt of the card to let them know about any corrections.
She will also have to pay for a passport renewal unless she renewed her passport within the last year. I looked into that last year when my husband and I were thinking of marrying in the states, the date we were thinking of was over the one year mark. I just can't remember if there was a separate form for name changes due to marriage or not. That question would be easily answered by visiting the US embassy website or by googling.
If she leaves her passport and BRP card in her maiden name for travel, the only important thing is to book all travel in the name on her BRP card and Passport. The US really won't care what name she's traveling with, just that the passport matches her her tickets.
Hope that's helpful!