IF that happens, what do I need to do to get married there? Not to stay, but just go over for the ceremony and come back again to do our application. All I can find online is about the 28 days notice. Is there a way to let immigration know that I'm not trying to sneak in, I just need to get married over there because he can't come here?
Thanks!
If you want to get married in the UK, you need a specific visa in order to be able to do so. One of the restrictions of the regular visitor visa is that you cannot get married on it.
You would need to apply for a Marriage Visitor Visa, with proof that you have a life to return to in the US, and proof of wedding plans in the UK.
Once you have the visa, you must spend a minimum of 35 days in the UK before you can marry:
- 7 days of residency in the county where you will marry, before you can give notice to marry
- then you have to wait a minimum of 28 days after giving notice before you are allowed to marry
- if your case is referred to UKVI for further investigation, you may have to wait 70 days before you can marry, but if you already have the Marriage Visitor Visa, this shouldn't happen.
See here for how to apply for the visa:
https://www.gov.uk/marriage-visa/overview